In 2022, my life changed & it will never be the same again!

In those early days of grief, what hurt most wasn’t only the loss itself, but the pressure to keep moving, to keep smiling, to somehow “be strong.” The world moved forward as if nothing had happened. People offered words they thought might comfort — “stay strong” or “he wouldn’t want you to be sad.” But inside, I was unraveling.

I held my grief in. I didn’t cry in front of my family. Instead, I broke in hidden places — in the shower, in the car, in quiet stolen moments when no one was watching.

Elaria & Co was born from this place — from the deepest kind of loss, the day I lost my son, Jaiden, in a motorbike accident. In a single moment, everything I knew shattered. The silence that followed was unbearable. Not because I didn’t want to speak, but because I simply couldn’t. There are no words big enough, deep enough, or true enough to capture the enormity of that loss.

The world kept asking me to explain how I felt, to put my grief into sentences. But how do you give language to something that has no words?

What I longed for wasn’t advice, or therapy, or even answers. I longed for a space where I could simply be — where I could sit with my grief without needing to explain it. A space that felt safe, soft, and understanding. A space that reminded me I wasn’t broken, even when I felt I was.

That longing planted the seed for The Quiet Room — the heart of Elaria & Co.

The Quiet Room is not about fixing or forcing. It’s a gentle, heart-led space for women navigating grief. A space that believes healing doesn’t always come through talking. Sometimes it lives in stillness, in breath, in presence. Sometimes the most powerful healing begins when no words are required.

I created Elaria & Co because I know how isolating grief can feel. I know the exhaustion of carrying invisible weight while the world expects you to keep going. And I also know — with every fibre of my being — that there is another way.

Here, you’ll find tools, support, and soul-nourishing practices designed to hold you gently as you move through your own grief. Not to push you forward, but to walk beside you. Not to tell you how to heal, but to remind you that you are not alone in this.

I am here because I believe that in the quietest moments, healing can bloom. And though life may never be the same, there is still light to be found — soft, steady, and waiting for you.

With love, always,
Kelly
Founder of Elaria & Co